Introducing Brenna Jacobson!

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Introducing Brenna Jacobson

We are so pleased to announce today that we are bringing on Brenna Jacobson as our newest associate and team member here at Alongside You! Brenna brings a wealth of experience from all sorts of areas of life including the hospitals and medical system, to pelvic rehabilitation and therapeutic yoga! While you may have heard of pelvic rehabilitation and therapeutic yoga before (who hasn’t heard of yoga?), you may not have seen it as an individual service, which is what Brenna will be offering, starting May 1, 2016!

We’re excited to offer Brenna’s services to our clients because anyone who meets her very quickly learns how passionate she is about pelvic rehabilitation and yoga, and also how passionate she is about reaching people who may not have been introduced to these services before, or may have shied away from them in the past. Brenna’s services are all offered on a one on one basis, and her yoga practice is focusing particularly on those struggling with mental health difficulties and/or trauma. So many people can benefit from her services but may be too anxious or turned off by large groups of people and large spaces, and she will be able to create a safe space, with individual attention to each of her clients.

I could go on forever about how awesome it is that Brenna is joining us, and extoll her virtues but who better to introduce herself, than Brenna? Without further ado, I’ll hand over this space to our newest member of the team, Brenna Jacobson!


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Hi everyone!

My name is Brenna Jacobson and I am so excited to be joining the team here at Alongside You! I am a BCRPA Certified Registered Fitness Professional (RFP). I retired from being an administrator at Fraser Health in 2010 and worked to get my certification as a Pfilates (Pelvic floor) Instructor/Trainer for pelvic health and fitness in the United States under gynecologist Dr. Bruce Crawford of Reno Nevada in 2012. I have also been certified in several fields of fitness, including Yoga, Osteofit, Older Adult and Weight Training. I have expanded my practice particularly under the Yoga umbrella providing Pre-natal Yoga, Gentle Yoga for Osteo, Senior’s Yoga (Sr’s 50+), and Children’s Yoga. I’m also certified as a Pre- and Post-Natal Fitness Consultant, which I enjoy immensely! My work as a Pre- and Post- Natal Fitness Consultant covers all aspects of pregnancy from preparation for delivery through strengthening the pelvic environment, often including a Yoga practice. My work with clients also provides an ongoing fitness program through pregnancy, and designs post natal programs to begin as soon as possible for recovery after delivery. I love the fact that I get to work with my clients all the way through their pregnancy journey and use my skills and knowledge to help them come up with a plan, and use their own strengths to have a fulfilling pre- and post-natal experience.

I also have a passion for helping people with health conditions that may go untreated. Many people go undiagnosed with common conditions such as urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, tummy pouch, poor posture or pelvic pain. Many of these conditions get chalked up to child bearing, old age, etc., thinking that nothing can be done about it because “that’s just life!” That couldn’t be farther from the truth, and what I teach is living proof.

I am passionate about the work I do through the services I provide using Therapeutic Yoga. An example of these services is Yoga for Fertility, and the Pelvic Rehabilitation programs, like Pfilates. They are effective and only require desire and some discipline on the client’s part, and a commitment to creating improved health through self-help. I incorporate techniques from other areas that I have studied, including specialized postural techniques and ways of dealing with conditions such as pelvic organ prolapse, which is not exclusive to women. Most people do not know that many men as well as women experience renal incontinence. Men often experience urinary incontinence post-prostatectomy and can benefit from Pelvic Floor Muscle Training (PFMT) techniques.

Throughout my career I have specialized in women’s health, encompassing pelvic health of women from teens to very old age. If you have given birth, you are post natal. Pelvic Floor Muscle Training (PFMT) is a very effective therapy for a number of issues, such as: Stress, Urge, or Mixed Urinary Incontinence (UI), which is helped by building a strong healthy pelvic environment for delivery (for which pre-natal yoga is greatly supportive); Infertility (which generally includes both partners), where Yoga is also an important part of the therapy treatment; menstrual health through improved circulation, and for back and pelvic girdle pain by stabilizing the pelvis to support the lower back and reduce sciatic nerve and muscle pain. PFMT is also effective in prevention of injuries post-partum by countering the effects of the hormones relaxin and progesterone, which overly relax the ligaments and joints for up to 6 months after delivery. Sexual satisfaction can be improved by increasing motor and nerve supply to vital nerves, along with conditions like Dyspareunia (painful intercourse), common enough during and after pregnancy, by increasing circulation and teaching relaxation techniques for pelvic floor muscles. Posture is another common issue that we often don’t notice until it has begun to deteriorate. It is common post-partum, or in clients with osteoporosis. In either of these cases a gentle yoga practice is a good adjunct to PFMT.

Other issues I help clients deal with can be post-natal weight loss, and a condition called DRA – Diastasis Recti Abdominus, which is separation of the recti muscles, more often called Pooch or Mummy Tummy. This is an extremely common condition and will increase with successive child births. It needs to be dealt with through a fitness regime including PFMT. One final condition I need to mention, is pelvic organ prolapse, or POP. This condition exists in epidemic proportions, occurs not only seniors and the middle aged, but teens as well. The causes can range from high impact sport activities, pushing phase of childbirth, surgical procedures that remove organs (ectomies) and conditions such as emphysema with chronic coughing, to name a few.

Have you had enough information yet? I love talking about what I do because I believe that I can help a lot of people who are struggling with conditions that might not get the attention they deserve! I am continually committed to increasing my scope of knowledge and expertise, and in turn, offer it up to clients in the hope that it may relieve suffering and improve quality of life. I have a foundational belief that my work with clients can build their sense that they do have some control of the outcomes of their health. My work is about empowerment, and quality of life, and if it hasn’t come across enough yet, I love what I do!

I know this was a lot of information to throw at you – let me say, if you have any questions about what I do, or if I can help, please give me a call at the office at 604-283-7827 or email me at brenna@alongsideyou.ca and I’d love to chat about how we can move forward together!

Affordable Counselling

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Affordable Counselling at Alongside You

We have always wanted our services to be as accessible to everyone as possible, but we know that our lowest sliding scale rate is sometimes out of reach for many. As a business, we are only able to lower our rates so far and still keep the lights on and the doors open. We actively look for ways to make our services as affordable as possible, and we’ve just created one more option: Masters degree internships.

Counselling Intern now available at Alongside You

We’re please to announce that Kelly Williams, a Masters student from Adler University has started her internship and is available for individuals and couples needing counselling. As a Masters student, she will be under the supervision of Andrew Neufeld, or Executive Director. She will be with us through August 2016 and we couldn’t be happier.

What does this mean for affordability?

Clinical Internships benefit the student and the community in many ways, but one of financial benefits is that counselling is available at much lower rates that would be otherwise feasible. We are able to offer counselling with our interns at the following rates:

$30+GST/hour for individuals and couples

$20+GST/hour for individuals and couples on Persons With Disability benefits or Income Assistance

Our interns are supervised very closely and clients benefit not only from the experience and knowledge of the intern, but also the supervisor. It’s a wonderful arrangement that allows the student to gain the required hours for their program as well as providing a much needed service for the community.

How do I make an appointment to see the intern?

If you would like to see Kelly, please contact her supervisor, Andrew Neufeld through the contact form on the website or by phone at 604-283-7827.

 

Holiday Stress – Top 3 ways to avoid it

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Holiday Stress Getting You Down?

Are you getting bogged down by holiday stress? I have a confession to make – holidays stress me out if I’m not careful. What is designed to be a time of joy, spending time with friends and family, and recuperating from a busy year can quickly morph into the Holiday Monster that seems to mimic the energizer bunny and just keep going, and going, and going…

Here’s the thing: it doesn’t have to be this way. The holidays can still be what what they were designed to be: a time of great joy and connecting with others. For some, however, the holidays can also be a time of sadness for those who have lost loved ones, or perhaps don’t have family or friends nearby. Or difficult for those who are struggling with their own mental, physical, or emotional health issues that don’t take a break just because Santa’s coming to town.

So, I give you my Top 3 ways to avoid holiday stress and the impending burnout.

1. Accept the busyness of the season.

Sometimes we imagine the holiday season to be a blissful, paradise of tranquility that can only be seen in a Thomas Kinkade painting. This is amplified when you add children’s programs at school, children’s programs at church, holiday parties at work places (which is often multiple for many families), holiday parties with friends, family get togethers – you get the idea. If you’ve been reading and saying, “Yes,” to each of these events, it’s no wonder you feel frazzled and tired. It really is a lot to take in – and a lot to do in a short period of time.

We have a choice. We can give in to the holiday stress and become frazzled, anxious, upset, and even bitter; or, we can choose what Marsha Linehan, the founder of Dialectical Behaviour Therapy calls Radical Acceptance and accept that despite all of our best intentions, the holidays are often extremely busy, that this is our reality, and stop fighting against this fact.

2. Choose to be present, and choose what to be present for.

When we feel overwhelmed, we often dissociate. I’m not talking dissociation in the sense of losing all sense of reality (although it may feel like that sometimes), but more along the lines of hanging out at the food table far too long, drinking far too much eggnog, staring blankly at the wall, or looking at our phones/tablets constantly – all in an effort to avoid connecting with how overwhelmed we are, and further, having to connect with someone else while we’re in this state. So how do we choose to be present in the midst of feeling overwhelmed?

Breathe. There, I said it. If you actually pay attention to your breathing patterns you’ll likely notice that as soon as your stress levels rise, you stop breathing properly. Our brain needs oxygen to survive, and if we deprive it of this, it has a hard time thinking and processing leading us to feel even more overwhelmed. If you’re overwhelmed, take a moment and breathe. Notice the air passing through your mouth or nose, into your lungs, and focus on that and nothing else. Even one minute of doing this can be enough to bring you back to the present, and being present in the moment.
Part of having the ability to be present, means choosing what to be present for. We can’t do it all, even though we may feel we can, or even want to. If we want to be present while we’re with others, sometimes it means choosing not to go to certain events, or participate in certain activities so that we don’t become overwhelmed and can actually enjoy what we’re doing and who we’re with. Surprisingly, if we choose not to attend a function or two the earth does not stop spinning on its axis.

3. Be mindful of the true meaning of the holidays.

It’s easy to lose sight of what we are celebrating and get caught up in the holiday stress and mayhem. Regardless of what you are celebrating, it pays to focus on the original intent of the celebration as a reminder of why we are doing what we are doing. In Judaism, Hanukkah, in general terms, celebrates the rededication of the temple after years of oppression – a triumph of light over darkness; Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus, a symbol of peace for Christians; and Kwanzaa celebrates African-American life and culture and all three involve lots of good food, and gift-giving.

By being mindful of the true meaning of the holidays, we can help ourselves focus on why we celebrate, and why we participate in all the events that we do each holiday season. And, if we play our cards right, we may just enjoy ourselves, spend time with loved ones, celebrate another year passing and a New Year coming. From all of us at Alongside You, we wish you and your loved ones a wonderful holiday season, and only the best in the coming New Year.

– Andrew for the team at Alongside You

South Delta, you did it!

We did it!

We raised $1110.00!!

Thank you South Delta!

We had an amazing time at the Christmas Party and Silent Auction yesterday afternoon. 100% of funds raised go straight to Reach Child and Youth Development Society to benefit their TEENSS Respite Program.

Did I mention we raised $1110.00?

You guys rock! It is only because we are situated in such a supportive community that a small clinic like ours could get a result like this. We’re blown away. We want to thank everyone from South Delta who came out to support this cause, and we want to thank all of our generous donors who made this possible. When Meg and I started Alongside You, this is exactly what we’d hoped for – a clinic that we know can help people through our services, and can work with the community to support others in need. To get this kind of a response from the community after only being open for a few short months is overwhelming to say the least; all we can say is thank you. Thank you for supporting us, and for supporting Reach Child and Youth Development. Their services are so integral to our community, and we look forward to hearing how your generosity is reaching the families in South Delta.

We want to thank all of our amazing donors, so please take a minute to check them all out. They gave so generously, and without hesitating – we are truly lucky to live and work in an area with such supportive small businesses. Please consider shopping with our donors this holiday season – they do so much for our community and we really do need to support them if we want that to continue.

Without further ado, our donors were (in no particular order):

Lawlor Goldsmith Shoppe
The Quilted Bear
Better Still Day Spa
Stir Coffee House
The Corporation of Delta
Honey Stick Threads
Ladner Village Hardware
FINDS Reach’s Children’s Thrift Store
Centre Stage Accessories
South Delta Heels Company
Alongside You (just stating the obvious on this one…)

Again, thank you to everyone that came, donated, supplied auction items, spread the word, and we hope everyone had a great time with family and friends. We sure did!

Until next year!

Andrew and Meg Neufeld, and the staff at Alongside You.

Man Therapy – mental health for men

Man Therapy

Man Therapy

Men are a special breed. We like to think we can fix everything, overcome anything, and do it all on our own. Well, if my personal life, or professional experience are any indication – we *may* be kidding ourselves. Man Therapy is an innovative, “manly” approach to mental health that is geared towards men who may think therapy is for anyone but them. I’m not too proud to admit that I’ve been through therapy, and have needed it at times in my life. I’ve definitely been too proud at times to seek help, or to let others know when I’m struggling, and therapy has helped me immensely in this.

Whatever the case may be, whatever you think about therapy, check out this website. It’s for men, by men. Oh, and it’s also for women who have to deal with men. It’s Man Therapy, and it’s good stuff.

Your fellow man,

Andrew

PS – If you would like to give therapy a chance, I’d love to have a chat with you. Give me a call – 604-283-7827